Get Divorced
Lawyer in Cape Town

eDivorce.co.za offers an easy-to-use, low cost, online divorce service.
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that assists users in filling out divorce forms through an automated.

Hostile divorces are devastating to families and children involved. Our vision at eDivorce is to allow spouses considering divorce, to obtain their own forms on-line without exorbitant legal fees and divorce legislation and literature that doesn't always make sense. We offer a discreet, private and inexpensive way to obtain the necessary divorce documentation. eDivorce is NOT a law firm and we do NOT provide legal advice. Because every divorce is different, it is impossible to draft generic documents and therefore each document is personally tailored according to the client's specifics. However, emotions aside, divorce is not always a easy decision and rational decisions can’t be taken when you are emotional. No couple goes into marriage thinking they will be the ones who won’t make it. Remember to try your best to look after the interests of your children by not involving them in your divorce either directly or indirectly. Put aside your hurt, your ego and pride as much as you can and do whatever what you can to assure them that you both will be involved in their lives. The decision to divorce is critical, with consequences that can last a lifetime. Remember that marital problems, pain in your relationship and frustration with it does not always mean that you have to divorce your spouse. Marriage is more than just two people living together and getting their own needs met. Marriage is a unified coupling of two people who work for the best interest of the relationship. Have your feelings diminished or, are you feeling powerless over a problem in the marriage and due to this, there is a lack of emotional closeness. If there are still feelings of love and affection then you should work on the relationship and think twice before deciding on divorce. Are you angry at your spouse and threatening divorce out of frustration over the problems in the marriage? Are you frustrated and feel that threatening divorce will finally get your spouse’s attention and they will take you seriously? If you are ready for divorce you will have let go of any emotional attachments you have with your spouse. These are good feelings and negative feelings that often come into play during marital conflict. You need to be able to face your children’s pain and be there to help them cope. If you are the one wanting the divorce, you will have to deal with the pain of others. Don’t let guilt over wanting a divorce stand in the way of helping those hurt cope with the divorce. Or, will you remain bitter, resentful and feel like a victim? The attitude you choose to live with will determine, not only the kind of divorce you have but the quality of life you have after you divorce.