Private Play Therapy Practice
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I am within medical aid rates.I sepcialise in divorce, bereavement, bullying and trauma. I am a qualified Child Play Therapist, Trauma Counsellor and Teacher.I am HPCSA, BHF and SACE certified.

It is never an easy process, no matter who you are, and the dilemma of doing the right thing for your child(ren) is one that thousands of separated fathers face every day in South Africa. In Divorce for Dads, cerebrated soccer personality Gary Bailey combines forces with renowned UK family-behaviour expert Nick Woodall to provide the first guidebook aimed specifically at South African fathers undergoing divorce or family separation. Offering comprehensive advice in a simple and accessible format, this is a book that every divorced (or separating) dad should read. Society sends girls the message that it is important for them to get along with others and to be very, very thin and pretty. The term self-image is used to refer to a person’s mental picture of herself. A lot of our self-image is based on interactions we have with other people and our life experiences. This mental picture (our self-image) contributes to our self-esteem. A girl with a healthy self-esteem is able to feel good about herself, appreciate her own worth and take pride in her abilities, skills, accomplishments and is happy with what she sees in the mirror. A girl with a low self-esteem may feel as if no one likes her or accepts her or that she does not do well in anything. Self-confidence is how a girl views her own abilities to do something. The level of self-confidence is usually a result of overcoming certain obstacles or working to improve a skill. Try modelling healthy habits, such as eating a balanced diet, enjoying treats in moderation, exercising (without complaining) and embracing your body the way it is. Make an effort every day to tell your daughter that she is beautiful and to look at her with loving, rather than critical, eyes. Empower your daughter by encouraging her individual interests and recognising when she excels. Having a hobby, passion or creative outlet helps build confidence and allows your daughter’s mind to flourish in an environment in which she feel safe and comfortable. To build your daughters confidence and self-efficacy, assign her responsibilities at which she can succeed. These include: doing the laundry, cleaning her room or something as simple as sewing loose buttons back onto garments. Monitor your child’s television, radio and internet activity. Help her to avoid overexposure to violent images, which can heighten her anxiety. And more so than not it is then that we should embrace difference and a sense of love and respect for who she is. The best gift you can part on your daughter, as a parent, is a healthy self-image and a sense of worth. Is there a difference in price from the 1st tooth lost to the last milk tooth? Should there be a consensus amongst friends that they each give their children the same amount? It is researched that early grade-schoolers are preoccupied with fairness. It cannot go without saying that no child wants to think the Tooth Fairy likes the child next door better. The debate as to how much in exchange for a tooth is on-going. It is about the magic she shares with her family and friends. It is about the magic moment when she realises she is getting just a little bit older. It is also an ideal opportunity to teach your child about oral healthcare and the importance of brushing your teeth twice a day. So, next time your child loses a tooth and the Tooth Fairy is alerted to come and visit rest assured that there are many parents who are grappling with the decision of how much to give? There is, however, research and with the introduction of modern technology, some tools to guide you with this decision.